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More school aggression

Posted 03-10-2009 at 06:40 AM by wilbe95
Last week my son was bit my another boy at school. Yesterday that boy was able to have his recess period back. You would think that he would have related losing recess to the biting. This time he took it way further and ended up biting three other little boys (fortunately not my son this time) scraped one of the boys enough that he needed a bandaid. Wonder what the school said to those parents, I think after talking with me last week they would contact parents this time, but not sure if they did or not. According to my son, the boy will lose his recess for this week. Uhm don't think that worked the last time why will it work this time? Hope the school wakes up and gets this boy to the counselor.

Glad it wasn't my son this time, feel really bad that it had to happen again. If I was one of the parents from yesterday I think I would have came unglued on the school if I knew this boy had done it before.
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I'm glad it was not your son also ,but the school need to find out why? this child bites . I have found out working with children that children bite for many reasons - mostly out of frustration or out of the reaction - some because it is their defence against others. With my little kids it is mostly out of frustration -but I have also had children as old as 7 or 8 bite and mainly because they wanted something or it got a great reaction. It not right to just let someone bite others -maybe the school could recomend a counciler to find out why the child bites. Bobbi -ne
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Posted 03-10-2009 at 10:41 AM by bcoffey68359 bcoffey68359 is offline
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The home environment for this boy encourages male dominance. Okay let me just say it in simple terms-Dad has "anger issues" with mom (known for a fact). I am assuming that this boy is probably witnessing or experience some of these "anger issues" and not knowing how to cope when he gets frustrated he does what he thinks is okay because he sees it at home.
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Posted 03-10-2009 at 11:35 AM by wilbe95 wilbe95 is offline
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I will agree that some behavior might be learned from home , but I deal with all kind of folks. some treat their kid like an item -some folks are really self serving, some parents really care. I have had really physically abused kids. And some do lash out -if you think this is going on -it is your job to call the athorities. I have a girl now that her father can not have contact with her or mom -why because he bit the mother on the back and tried to stangle her -and the girl well she is really confused - being 5 it hard to understand - why? I am glad her mother moved her from this situation , but this has happened twice before -I am sure she take him back -my job is to be a good influnce on her and not to judge - Good luck Bobbi -ne
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Posted 03-10-2009 at 05:29 PM by bcoffey68359 bcoffey68359 is offline
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Oh Kim, this isn't good at all. At the first part of the school year my youngest son had a problem with another boy in his class. Everyday on the playground this boy would ask my son to join this third grade club. My son would tell him no, but when he said no, the other boy would kick him in the growing area. The first time it happened I told him to go to the teacher. The second time we talked to the teacher. She looked into the sitution, and then went to the principal. A week later the school was calling us to tell us what had been done to take care of this. Come to find out, this little boy has an older brother in high school. And the older brother was telling him to do these things at school. Because that's how the older kids did it. It was a club that was teaching the younger kids how to beat up everyone that told them no. The boy was suspended from school for a week, and so was his older brother. We haven't had anymore problems since.
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Posted 03-10-2009 at 06:45 PM by tsgal tsgal is offline
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not good at all. I don't really know what to tell you, I mean if taking away the child's recess isn't working there needs to be more severe means to deal with this, but knowing how the school system works not much else will be done. I'd quite honestly just look out for your son and tell him to just avoid that boy for now.
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Posted 03-11-2009 at 01:39 AM by Tarrien Tarrien is offline
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I certainly hope that someone finds help for this young man, before it's to late (school has all the rights to do something here). This child is calling out for help, it sounds like...
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Posted 03-11-2009 at 02:25 AM by JoAnn JoAnn is offline
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OMG if there is one thing that really grosses me out it's biting !!! The human mouth is soooo nasty. It seems like a school would know that and get that kid some help !!! He surely needs it !!! If a kid is biting like that there is always something behind it !!!!!
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Posted 03-15-2009 at 07:04 PM by incheck4real incheck4real is offline
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I am so sorry that there is some child doing that. It wouldnt fly with me, my son's school see's us coming and wants to hide b/c we are so outspoken on things like that!
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Posted 03-15-2009 at 07:09 PM by beansthemama beansthemama is offline
 
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